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Understanding the importance of setting boundaries 🎀


 Hi everyone 

Today I thought I would talk about setting boundaries. People forget that boundaries are not just for your partner but also for family and friends. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy relationships and ensuring personal well-being. Boundaries are the limits we establish to protect our physical, emotional, and mental space. They help us communicate our needs and preferences, allowing us to engage in relationships that are respectful and fulfilling.


One of the key reasons for setting boundaries is to prevent burnout and stress. In both personal and professional settings, failing to establish clear limits can lead to overcommitment and feelings of being overwhelmed. For example, in a workplace, if you consistently say yes to additional tasks without considering your capacity, it can lead to decreased productivity and increased anxiety. This is something I will be eternally guilty for. I will would rather work a 16 hour shift then say no to my boss. By setting boundaries, you can prioritize your workload and maintain a healthy work-life balance.


Additionally, boundaries foster respect and understanding in relationships. When we communicate our limits, we teach others how to treat us. This not only helps in avoiding misunderstandings but also encourages open communication. For instance, if a friend repeatedly interrupts you, expressing that you need them to listen when you speak can strengthen your relationship by creating a more supportive environment. I think people forget how important it is to set boundaries within a friendship. It honestly can make or break a friendship. 

Ultimately, setting boundaries is about self-care and advocating for your own needs, which is vital for personal growth and happiness.


Thanks for reading 


 Beth x



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